Yet another sample provided in our Pole Expo goodie bags: Pole Mamas Pole Body Grip -- Sweet Janeiro sample. The sample is adorable. It looks like a tiny, fat chapstick. One of the girls in our room, in fact, may have used it as chapstick before realizing what it was. I did finally try it out in pole class last week. It is a bee's wax type consistency. It smells lovely. And it gives some decent grip (less than iTac2, which would be the closest in product consistency, which is good since iTac2 is awesome for gluing me to a spinning pole). Again, as I don't have sweaty hands, I can't say how it would work if you are sweaty, but for trying moves like Jasmine (which is what I'm trying to get without crying about kneepit pain), it worked great! This blog blossomed in 2010 to chronicle my adventures in pole dance after weight loss surgery. Although I am pole dancing less these days, I still hike and do yoga. I sometimes still have to remind myself that the size of my body doesn't dictate my worth. I believe living a life full of gratitude and joy helps lead to a true mind, body and spirit connection.
Tuesday, September 30, 2014
Pole Mamas Pole Body Grip
Yet another sample provided in our Pole Expo goodie bags: Pole Mamas Pole Body Grip -- Sweet Janeiro sample. The sample is adorable. It looks like a tiny, fat chapstick. One of the girls in our room, in fact, may have used it as chapstick before realizing what it was. I did finally try it out in pole class last week. It is a bee's wax type consistency. It smells lovely. And it gives some decent grip (less than iTac2, which would be the closest in product consistency, which is good since iTac2 is awesome for gluing me to a spinning pole). Again, as I don't have sweaty hands, I can't say how it would work if you are sweaty, but for trying moves like Jasmine (which is what I'm trying to get without crying about kneepit pain), it worked great! Achy Muscles? Try Sore No More!
At Pole Expo, we were given a sample of Grounding Flight Aromatherapy's So No More in our goodie bags. Remember how I smashed my face on the ground while I was there? Well, I had expected to not be able to move the day after that little incident. As I was going to bed, one of the girls in the room suggested I try the sample in our bag. I realize that a product like this can't fix a ruptured disc, but it certainly did seem to help my muscles relax! I was able to move around a lot better on Sunday than I expected.
I have continued using the product on my neck and lower back in the last couple of weeks as my muscles take on various aches from being injured. It is very gentle (not like the shock of my usual favorite, BioFreeze), so I can still use a heating pad with it. It smells slightly lemony, so it also doesn't shock the senses like Icy Hot or BioFreeze.
So if you are looking for another way to ease those achy mucles, give Sore No More a try!
I have continued using the product on my neck and lower back in the last couple of weeks as my muscles take on various aches from being injured. It is very gentle (not like the shock of my usual favorite, BioFreeze), so I can still use a heating pad with it. It smells slightly lemony, so it also doesn't shock the senses like Icy Hot or BioFreeze.
So if you are looking for another way to ease those achy mucles, give Sore No More a try!
Wednesday, September 24, 2014
My performance at Cowboy Wild's Pole-Tacular Birthday Extravaganza
This will be short and sweet. Here's video of my performance at Robert's birthday (you can read more about the weekend HERE). There is also the playlist of other performances. Thank you to AJ for teaching us the choreography from the video! And thank you so much to all of my back-up dancers! Since I could barely remember the dance, I needed you!!!
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Tuesday, September 23, 2014
September 2014 Blog Hop: Hot for Teacher
You've heard the saying: "Those who can, do; those who can't, teach." While I know a ton of amazing pole teachers who can do *and* teach, in my case, that is actually true! When Bel asked me to become an instructor almost three years ago, I really didn't feel qualified. I didn't have a background in dance or fitness. I really had only a very basic understanding of body mechanics. I had been working out, doing yoga, and paying trainers for almost 18 years, but that still does not make me an expert. However, I started to shadow Bel (who is a certified fitness expert and is also Xpert certified in pole) and eventually started to teach a beginner pole class. Many of my students were also friends and ended up dancing with me for over two years. We also had new students come through, so I was teaching a mixed level class. Again, I didn't feel qualified. A few months ago, we started trying to encourage them to take other classes so that I could get back to basics and teach the beginner levels again. The plan is for my class to provide a solid foundation so that little baby pole dancers can go on to intermediate and advanced classes with confidence.
While I miss my regular class and friends terribly, I also really enjoy teaching beginner pole. I feel like I can actually provide useful information and teach moves.
I have been frustrated with my pole journey lately. I recently lost 21 pounds and wanted to start taking more classes so I can grow -- not only so I can be a better pole dancer but so I can be a better instructor. As seems to happen to me, injuries, time, money, life...it all gets in the way. I really do enjoy teaching beginners because I feel like it allows me to continue to be an ambassador for pole. Each time I teach someone who has never poled before, I feel like I am responsible for helping them see how awesome pole is. I see Yelp reviews for studios and instructors who are horribly mean and nasty to their students. That will never be me. Everyone is welcome in my class. You won't learn how to Iron-X in my class, but I promise some dancing, sweating, and a lot of laughs.
Who was your first pole instructor? Do you still take class with them?? Leave your comments below!
Monday, September 22, 2014
Mo' Injuries, Mo' Problems
So, I mentioned how, at Pole Expo, I'd flipped out of the Fly Gym and smashed myself up pretty well. Although my toe was super bruised, and I thought possibly broken, my first and biggest worry when it first happened was the crack I heard in my neck.
First off, I did have my foot x-rayed. There was no break. Although there's not much that can be done for broken toes (other than taping, usually), my doctor was concerned that the metatarsal may have been broken based on the level of bruising and swelling. Although everything ended up being fine (well, "fine" as in, "not broken"), over two weeks later, my left foot is still swollen and my second toe hurts like a bitch all the time. I imagine that constantly walking on it with a body weighing 240 pounds doesn't give much rest to tiny toesies. I have another doctor's appointment this week and will probably start icing the foot to get swelling down. I just barely got over my last foot problem (other foot, at least). I don't need to go through this again.
Next issue: that sickening crack I heard in my spine when I hit the floor. The first doctor's appointment after Pole Expo was to deal with the toe. The purple bruising was pretty fantastic, and everything else was just vaguely sore. When I went in the next week (which was last week), my doctor asked how I felt. I said, well it's weird but I feel this pinch and pain down my entire leg. He said, I was worried about that! He also said he was surprised I wasn't in even more pain. Well, now that he's mentioned it, I *am* in a ton of pain!
My doctor said that most likely I ruptured a disc when I fell and it was swollen and pinching a nerve. He said to be careful about my arms (potentially indicates ruptured disc in neck) or legs (potentially indicates ruptured disc in lower back) falling asleep, because that could mean we have a larger issue (or worse injury than we thought). At that point, maybe I will need an MRI?? Well, I'm sure its psychosomatic like the previously reported increased pain, but suddenly this weekend, I had several instances where my arms or legs went to sleep. In fact, when I got up on a massage table yesterday, there was a pillow under my feet and the angle almost immediately put my legs to sleep. I had to move it and shake my legs out and I was fine within seconds. It was scary though. And I'm still wondering if it is mostly in my mind.
Apparently the next six weeks are critical (well, the next four weeks since two weeks have already passed). I am supposed to be taking it very easy in the workout department. No lifting of heavy things, which means no spotting during pole class. I also need to be careful about back bending. I haven't been to yoga in a couple of weeks (mostly because my toes hurt in positions like downward dog) but did do a very gentle Fly Gym class with Ginger last week, which felt great. My doctor said this type of injury is usually too deep to ice but I have been icing my back and hip on occasion anyway. I did a lot of walking and sitting while driving this weekend, and have low pain this morning, surprisingly. This morning, in fact, my left hip is completely pain-free for the first time in years (thanks to the myofascial release). The rest of my leg is slightly throbbing, however.
I feel like I will never get ahead. As soon as I'm ready to start kicking ass and taking names, I get pushed down in the dirt. I have another doctor's appointment this week. I will mention the sleepy arms and legs, but am still feeling a little crazy that I didn't notice it until he mentioned it. My goals at this point are to figure out how to be kind to my body without letting all my progress go by the wayside.
How do you deal with injuries? I don't want to injure myself permanently, but if I stop exercising every time I'm hurt, I will essentially never exercise. If you have any advice, please leave it in the comments below!
First off, I did have my foot x-rayed. There was no break. Although there's not much that can be done for broken toes (other than taping, usually), my doctor was concerned that the metatarsal may have been broken based on the level of bruising and swelling. Although everything ended up being fine (well, "fine" as in, "not broken"), over two weeks later, my left foot is still swollen and my second toe hurts like a bitch all the time. I imagine that constantly walking on it with a body weighing 240 pounds doesn't give much rest to tiny toesies. I have another doctor's appointment this week and will probably start icing the foot to get swelling down. I just barely got over my last foot problem (other foot, at least). I don't need to go through this again.
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| One creepy, bony foot; one swollen foot |
My doctor said that most likely I ruptured a disc when I fell and it was swollen and pinching a nerve. He said to be careful about my arms (potentially indicates ruptured disc in neck) or legs (potentially indicates ruptured disc in lower back) falling asleep, because that could mean we have a larger issue (or worse injury than we thought). At that point, maybe I will need an MRI?? Well, I'm sure its psychosomatic like the previously reported increased pain, but suddenly this weekend, I had several instances where my arms or legs went to sleep. In fact, when I got up on a massage table yesterday, there was a pillow under my feet and the angle almost immediately put my legs to sleep. I had to move it and shake my legs out and I was fine within seconds. It was scary though. And I'm still wondering if it is mostly in my mind.
Apparently the next six weeks are critical (well, the next four weeks since two weeks have already passed). I am supposed to be taking it very easy in the workout department. No lifting of heavy things, which means no spotting during pole class. I also need to be careful about back bending. I haven't been to yoga in a couple of weeks (mostly because my toes hurt in positions like downward dog) but did do a very gentle Fly Gym class with Ginger last week, which felt great. My doctor said this type of injury is usually too deep to ice but I have been icing my back and hip on occasion anyway. I did a lot of walking and sitting while driving this weekend, and have low pain this morning, surprisingly. This morning, in fact, my left hip is completely pain-free for the first time in years (thanks to the myofascial release). The rest of my leg is slightly throbbing, however.
I feel like I will never get ahead. As soon as I'm ready to start kicking ass and taking names, I get pushed down in the dirt. I have another doctor's appointment this week. I will mention the sleepy arms and legs, but am still feeling a little crazy that I didn't notice it until he mentioned it. My goals at this point are to figure out how to be kind to my body without letting all my progress go by the wayside.
How do you deal with injuries? I don't want to injure myself permanently, but if I stop exercising every time I'm hurt, I will essentially never exercise. If you have any advice, please leave it in the comments below!
Friday, September 19, 2014
Need another product to stick to the pole? Try Stunt Grip!
While at Pole Expo, I met up with Steve Gale, one of the creators of Stunt Grip (he and his partner, Victor Flores, are also known for bringing us Pole Sleeves). As Steve has been in the business of stunts and Chinese pole for many years, I very much respect what he has to say and any products he endorses.
Earlier this week, I wrote a review about Dry Body, a product to help you stop sweating. Now I want to write about how to stick to the pole once you've stopped the sweating.
Stunt Grip comes in a little black bag. You tap the bag onto your hands. You can use it dry OR you can use a spray bottle of alcohol to set the product (which is why a little sweat doesn't hurt...and maybe if you are sweaty, you don't need the alcohol, as your sweat will be enough). I find that the delivery system helps keep the clumps (which happens with chalky tacks) from falling into your hands and only allows a fine dust to cover you. Over the last week, I've asked several people to try it and give me their feedback.
For myself, I found it to work well. It is a chalky powder but it didn't get everywhere. Since you do use liquid to help set the product, sweaty hands isn't an automatic death warrant. However, for my *super* sweaty-hand friends, they did sweat through it (remember, I sweat from my head, not my hands). It might be a good product to layer over something like an anti-perspirant or Tite Grip (or Dry Hands, or whatever product you like to get your hands to stop sweating). I feel like Ginger gave a great assessment. It gave her more stick than Mighty Grip, and I would add, but less grip than iTac2. It would be a great medium grip product to add to your arsenal (you know, trying to avoid that "cooter squeak" by not over-tacking yourself).
So if you're still looking for that perfect product to stick you to the pole, give Stunt Grip a try. You can check out their website HERE. You can also find them on Facebook HERE. They have a deal on the price if you purchase before November!
Check out Steve in action below:
Have you ever tried Stunt Grip? If not, pick some up and let me know your thoughts!
Earlier this week, I wrote a review about Dry Body, a product to help you stop sweating. Now I want to write about how to stick to the pole once you've stopped the sweating.Stunt Grip comes in a little black bag. You tap the bag onto your hands. You can use it dry OR you can use a spray bottle of alcohol to set the product (which is why a little sweat doesn't hurt...and maybe if you are sweaty, you don't need the alcohol, as your sweat will be enough). I find that the delivery system helps keep the clumps (which happens with chalky tacks) from falling into your hands and only allows a fine dust to cover you. Over the last week, I've asked several people to try it and give me their feedback.
For myself, I found it to work well. It is a chalky powder but it didn't get everywhere. Since you do use liquid to help set the product, sweaty hands isn't an automatic death warrant. However, for my *super* sweaty-hand friends, they did sweat through it (remember, I sweat from my head, not my hands). It might be a good product to layer over something like an anti-perspirant or Tite Grip (or Dry Hands, or whatever product you like to get your hands to stop sweating). I feel like Ginger gave a great assessment. It gave her more stick than Mighty Grip, and I would add, but less grip than iTac2. It would be a great medium grip product to add to your arsenal (you know, trying to avoid that "cooter squeak" by not over-tacking yourself).
So if you're still looking for that perfect product to stick you to the pole, give Stunt Grip a try. You can check out their website HERE. You can also find them on Facebook HERE. They have a deal on the price if you purchase before November!
Check out Steve in action below:
Have you ever tried Stunt Grip? If not, pick some up and let me know your thoughts!
Wednesday, September 17, 2014
Dry Body and Mighty Grip
At Pole Expo, someone from the Mighty Grip booth gave me a couple of samples of Dry Body. It stops sweat, they told me. Stops sweat? This can't be true. Yeah, I've heard of the medications you can take to stop sweat. And yeah, I'm a sweaty person, so you would have thought I'd have looked it up before now. But I guess I'm just lazy and until someone handed me a product, I never really thought to try it.
[Want to catch up on my sweaty adventures? Read THIS about my issue and THIS about magnesium.]
Anyway, back to the Dry Body. My first concern is that sweat rids your body of toxins, so will stopping the sweat allow toxins to build? According to THIS article, we have nothing to fear: "Another common concern about antiperspirants is that they may plug sweat glands and prevent toxins from leaving the body through underarm lymph nodes. However, there's no connection between your sweat glands and your lymph nodes [source: American Cancer Society]. In addition, your body doesn't get rid of waste through the sweat glands -- your kidneys and liver filter out toxins." I mean, if it's on the internet, it MUST be true, right?
Dry Body is essentially like rolling your anti-perspirant all over your body. You can read up on how that all works HERE: "When an antiperspirant is applied to the skin surface, its active ingredients – usually aluminium salts – dissolve in the sweat or moisture on the skin surface of the armpit. The dissolved substance forms a gel, which creates a small temporary ‘plug’ near the top of the sweat gland, significantly reducing the amount of sweat that is secreted to the skin surface."
In this case, Dry Body, however, claims to work for an entire week. I felt like the best way to find out if it worked was to try it! So, here are my sweaty times. I sweat in the middle of the night. I sweat after showers. I generally sweat when I get to work (left-over post-shower sweat plus now I've walked to work). I sweat when I work out. I sweat when I get nervous or am in pain. I sweat when I eat sugar. I sweat under hot lights. I pretty much sweat all the time (which I have always attributed to my clear skin, so I'm mostly okay with it!). My sweat mostly comes from my head, which then drips down my body. I don't get super sweaty arm pits or palms. If I am doing a crazy work out, then I will sweat all over my body, but for the most part, I have wet hair constantly from sweating (losing weight did help me be less sweaty but I've never been non-sweaty, regardless of my weight; my grandma is sweaty, as are a few other people in my family).
So I followed instructions to dab (not rub) the towellette on my scalp, hair line, neck, and then, for good measure, added in some dabs under the boobs (yeah I guess I do get boob sweat) and arm pits. Then I went to bed. I did NOT like the tingle it gave me around my face. It felt like little needles poking me over and over. However, it didn't kill me and I was able to fall asleep fine so I wasn't uncomfortable for long. It also smells like cloves, which triggers some old memory that I can't exactly put my finger on. So it brings me to a weird place mentally when I use it. That's not the product's fault though.
Day 1: Woke up un-sweaty. Normally I sweat in the middle of the night. After my shower? Not sweaty. Got to work? Not sweaty. I was even wearing Bb cream on my face and didn't sweat thoguh that!! (Oh yeah, heavy lotions, especially on my face also make me sweat.) Day 2: I did sweat a bit in pole class that night but it took longer to start and I didn't sweat as badly. Days 3 and 4? No sweating. Day 5: Back to normal levels of sweat in all areas.
So maybe I didn't get a full week of non-sweatiness, but four days wasn't so bad. I did another wipe again last night, and this morning, have had very little sweat. I am still nervous about not sweating, so maybe this isn't something I would do to myself every single week, but perhaps before large events where I don't want to sweat through my performance, this would be perfect for me. In fact, I wish I had used it before our pole show on Sunday, because I was a freaking wet wreck before/during/after that performance. It does require a little forethought, as you are supposed to apply it the night before (and I don't like how it makes my hair feel, so a wash is definitely required in the morning).
Below, you can see some photos of the packaging, the towelette and how I used it. If you are interested in checking out Dry Body, please visit Mighty Grip's website HERE. If you use the product, let me know how it works for you!
[Want to catch up on my sweaty adventures? Read THIS about my issue and THIS about magnesium.]
Anyway, back to the Dry Body. My first concern is that sweat rids your body of toxins, so will stopping the sweat allow toxins to build? According to THIS article, we have nothing to fear: "Another common concern about antiperspirants is that they may plug sweat glands and prevent toxins from leaving the body through underarm lymph nodes. However, there's no connection between your sweat glands and your lymph nodes [source: American Cancer Society]. In addition, your body doesn't get rid of waste through the sweat glands -- your kidneys and liver filter out toxins." I mean, if it's on the internet, it MUST be true, right?
Dry Body is essentially like rolling your anti-perspirant all over your body. You can read up on how that all works HERE: "When an antiperspirant is applied to the skin surface, its active ingredients – usually aluminium salts – dissolve in the sweat or moisture on the skin surface of the armpit. The dissolved substance forms a gel, which creates a small temporary ‘plug’ near the top of the sweat gland, significantly reducing the amount of sweat that is secreted to the skin surface."
In this case, Dry Body, however, claims to work for an entire week. I felt like the best way to find out if it worked was to try it! So, here are my sweaty times. I sweat in the middle of the night. I sweat after showers. I generally sweat when I get to work (left-over post-shower sweat plus now I've walked to work). I sweat when I work out. I sweat when I get nervous or am in pain. I sweat when I eat sugar. I sweat under hot lights. I pretty much sweat all the time (which I have always attributed to my clear skin, so I'm mostly okay with it!). My sweat mostly comes from my head, which then drips down my body. I don't get super sweaty arm pits or palms. If I am doing a crazy work out, then I will sweat all over my body, but for the most part, I have wet hair constantly from sweating (losing weight did help me be less sweaty but I've never been non-sweaty, regardless of my weight; my grandma is sweaty, as are a few other people in my family).
So I followed instructions to dab (not rub) the towellette on my scalp, hair line, neck, and then, for good measure, added in some dabs under the boobs (yeah I guess I do get boob sweat) and arm pits. Then I went to bed. I did NOT like the tingle it gave me around my face. It felt like little needles poking me over and over. However, it didn't kill me and I was able to fall asleep fine so I wasn't uncomfortable for long. It also smells like cloves, which triggers some old memory that I can't exactly put my finger on. So it brings me to a weird place mentally when I use it. That's not the product's fault though.
Day 1: Woke up un-sweaty. Normally I sweat in the middle of the night. After my shower? Not sweaty. Got to work? Not sweaty. I was even wearing Bb cream on my face and didn't sweat thoguh that!! (Oh yeah, heavy lotions, especially on my face also make me sweat.) Day 2: I did sweat a bit in pole class that night but it took longer to start and I didn't sweat as badly. Days 3 and 4? No sweating. Day 5: Back to normal levels of sweat in all areas.
So maybe I didn't get a full week of non-sweatiness, but four days wasn't so bad. I did another wipe again last night, and this morning, have had very little sweat. I am still nervous about not sweating, so maybe this isn't something I would do to myself every single week, but perhaps before large events where I don't want to sweat through my performance, this would be perfect for me. In fact, I wish I had used it before our pole show on Sunday, because I was a freaking wet wreck before/during/after that performance. It does require a little forethought, as you are supposed to apply it the night before (and I don't like how it makes my hair feel, so a wash is definitely required in the morning).
Below, you can see some photos of the packaging, the towelette and how I used it. If you are interested in checking out Dry Body, please visit Mighty Grip's website HERE. If you use the product, let me know how it works for you!
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